It’s one thing to have goals. It’s quite another to actually know how work toward getting those goals achieved — especially when those goals are big.
You may have heard that the solution is to “break the goal down into bite-sized chunks.” Or “a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” But what about when you don’t know what those chunks or single steps are? In this post, I’ll give you a practical approach you can use to help you get started when you don’t know how.
(The following is applied in part from Barbara Sher’s Wishcraft, with my own twist based on my experiences, of course!)
Identify the Reasons You Can’t
This part is easy. Imagine your goal. Now, in your best devil on the shoulder voice, list the obstacles to reaching your goal. No money, no time, not an expert… I’m sure you can come up with a few.
Now, get creative. For each obstacle you identified, ask yourself all the possible ways you could overcome that obstacle. For no money, your options might be robbing a bank, begging on street corners, getting a grant or scholarship, whatever. Nothing is off limits.
For each solution, identify what you like about the idea and what you don’t like. For example, I might like the immediacy of robbing a bank, but the whole go-to-jail and be-a-criminal doesn’t work for me. Use this second list to generate even more ideas (it’s amazing how ideas will flow when you start focus on finding solutions, rather than on the problem itself).
Finally, once you’ve exhausted your brainpower entirely, look at your list. Pick one solution to each obstacle — the solution you like the best. It doesn’t matter if you know how to accomplish that piece or not. The actual plan of attack is what comes next…
Obstacles Turn SubGoals
When your brain has recovered enough from all that feverish brainstorming, it’s time to look at what you’ve come up with. All those obstacles that were in your way before should now be turned into mini-goals.
If you’re like me, some of those mini-goals look immediately do-able. You look at them and know exactly how to do them. And that’s fantastic! Set those aside for the moment, and focus on the ones that you have absolutely no clue where to begin.
Now for each mini-goal, you’re going to create a reverse flow-chart. You do that byÂ asking yourself the following questions:
- Can I do this tomorrow?
- If not, what would I need to do first?
For each answer you come up with for question #2, repeat the process, until the answer to question #1 is “yes”. Then put it on your to-do list for tomorrow.
That’s it! It’s really no more complicated than that.
An Example of the Reverse FlowChart
Here’s an example from Wishcraft:
- Getting into medical school is a subgoal in its own right. Now, can I do it tomorrow?
- “What would I have to do first?”
- “Well, I’d have to apply to medical schools.”
- “Can I apply tomorrow?”
- “No. There are two things I’d have to do first: get high scores on the MCATs, and send for application forms.”
- “Can I send for applications tomorrow?”
- “Not until I’ve decided which schools to apply to.”
- “Can I decide which schools to apply to tomorrow?”
- No, first I’ll have to go to the library and read catalogs. (I can find out about regular loans and scholarships at the same time.) And thatÂ I can start doing tomorrow.
- “Can I get high test scores tomorrow?”
- “Obviously not. First I have to take the tests.”
- “Can I take the MCATs tomorrow?”
- If I did, I’d flunk them! First I’d better take some kind of premed review course.
- “Can I take a review course tomorrow?”
- Noâ€”first Iâ€™ve got to find out where there is one. I can do that tomorrow, by making phone calls to all the, local universities, college and medical schools. Another thing I can do is dig up my old college class notes and start reviewing them on my own.
You can see the full flowchart (from Wishcraft) below to see how it would all come together (click to enlarge).
Now Go Do It!
If you follow these easy steps, any goal can be made achievable. Simply by changing your mindset from “I can’t do this” to “How can I do this”, you will allow your own creative nature to bring all sorts of fantastic solutions and actionable steps to mind.
And if you’re still having trouble getting started, there is help. You can catch up with the #ideaparty that happens ever Thursday starting at noon EST on Twitter (go to http://search.twitter.com and search for #ideaparty). You can send me a message on Twitter (@maverickstruth) for some brainstorming help. Or you can go read Wishcraft (by the way, did I mention it’s a free PDF and it’s one of my favorite books, all time?).